...we would ask you not to discuss each other in a judgmental way as it will only serve your egos and create boulders you all must eventually deal with as negative energy to be transmuted and it also serves to create dissension and separation among you all. We ask you to accept the "shortcomings" of each other as they are all but illusion. To do otherwise will only serve to reinforce the denseness of the third dimension. You are here to raise the vibration, not interfere with it, remember this at all times. Remember the past as the past, the NOW is all that you are to address in your walks of life. Whatever you may feel about another as to their choices in the past is not who they are in the NOW. Do not create negative expectations based on illusion. We ask you to remember who you are as a Circle of Life, not as third dimensional beings, but as multi-dimensional, eternal entities. (Bishop through Julie Presson)
Do not concern yourself with that others do or leave undone. It is not your responsibility to evaluate their thoughts or their actions. Simply be responsible of how you think and act... You are not responsible for the choices that others have made, nor are they responsible for yours. However, you can and must learn from one another, for what you choose is not that different from the choice your brother makes. You make many of the same mistakes. Mistakes are opportunities for learning. To condemn your brother for making mistakes is to pretend to be mistake free, which you are not. I have asked you before and I will ask you again: which one of you will throw the first stone? You can release your brother from the judgment you would make of him within your own mind. To release him is to love him, for it places him where love alone lies - beyond judgment of any kind. (The Christ Mind through Paul Ferrini) - www.paulferrini.com
In a full heart there is room for everything, and in an empty heart there is room for nothing. (Antonio Porchian)
If God/Goddess/All That Is allows each extension of Itself total free will, then why don't you? Each individual has the God given right to play the role it's soul has chosen to perform, which amasses consciousness for the evolution of all creation. (Dean Fraser)
Any time you find less room or reason for the existence of one being over another, you are not reflecting your wholeness. (Mother Gaia through Pepper Lewis) - www.thepeacefulplanet.com (Source: Sedona Journal of Emergence - January 2004) - www.sedonajournal.com
Love is the essence of the new world - Unconditional Love - your love of one another, your love of those you will be looking after. It is highly important that we let the love for one another come through. We must not look at others and say, I do not like this person. We must look at them and say this is my brother or sister and so therefore I love them. Send that love, no matter how hard you feel it is to give that love. Send it and each time you send it you will find it easier and, as it becomes easier to you, the one you send the love to will become more pliable and begin to look at you in a different way... At all times be patient with people. Look at the world itself and see the beauty that is there and love it. Some will find this very hard, but with your love going out to people you will help them and it will become easier for them. (Kuthumi through Aisha)
It is in mastering love that one learns not to judge; for judgment is simply a lack of love and compassion for another. No human journey is easy; no human journey is better or worse than another; one comes to understand this through the inner process of mastery and examination of lifetimes related to one's ancestry in the act of ascension. It is as one sees that one has been “all things human” - good and bad, right and wrong - that one then has compassion for all other humans. (The Swan Kingdom through Karen Danrich "Mila") - www.ascendpress.org
I will not permit any man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him. (Booker T. Washington, 1856-1915 American Black Leader and Educator)
Allow all viewpoints without feeling you must defend your own. Allow no-one to tell you what your journey must reflect or what your reality is. Do not give your power away so easily, but give your love unconditionally. Any messages communicated in love validates equality. Low self-esteem is just as non-productive as a puffed up sense of self-esteem. They both deny equality. (Unknown)
The trait of always wishing to give another the benefit of the doubt, and to see the good and love in all circumstances creates a personality that tends to be non-judgmental... A non-judgmental personality will also have the capacity to shut off the negative garble that constantly permeates the human thought-stream. Such garble makes it impossible to hear one's guidance. As an inner silence is mastered, which comes from transcending the Kumara of Judgment, guidance can be heard more clearly in an ongoing basis. (Lady Rize) - www.ascendpress.org
As we mature spiritually, we exhibit a growing capacity to care for and appreciate one another regardless of our differences. (Joseph Stowell)
The opposite of love is differentiation and separation. (Gaia through Pepper Lewis) - www.thepeacefulplanet.com (Source: Sedona Journal of Emergence - November 2003) - www.sedonajournal.com
If you judge someone, you have no time to love them. (Mother Teresa)
Much of the vitality in a friendship lies in the honoring of differences, not simply in the enjoyment of similarities. (James L. Fredericks)
Look to the beings, to whom you judge, as teachers that are still providing valuable service to you; for they are reminding you of the importance of unconditional Love. For just as you will need surrender and trust at this time, unconditional love is the very thing that will anchor those essential ingredients, not only within you, but upon the planet. (Unknown)
Each night before you surrender to another day ask yourself - Did I love enough today or did I judge too much today. (Dean Fraser)
We should be lenient in our judgment, because often the mistakes of others would have been ours had we had the opportunity to make them. (Dr. Alsaker)
When you can remember the drama and your role is neither right nor wrong, neither good nor bad, but merely an experience, you will begin to understand the illusion of it all and move into your personal power... The purpose of all experience on Earth or in other dimensions is to add knowledge to your soul. The soul loves knowledge. The soul loves expansion, and it expands with new knowledge constantly. The collective soul, the overall soul, expands constantly by experiencing. This is what existence is all about.
Don't get caught in the drama of your creations. A good movie, a great drama, tells a story from beginning to end. That is what an experience is. It is like a movie adding knowledge to your soul - any experience you choose will add colour and dimension to your soul. What you need to realize is that it is an experience; it is not the reality of who you are. It is an experience, it is part of the soul's journey, and when you become so involved in the drama of the experience, you lose the reality of who you truly are. You abandon your true self; you are no longer in control and no longer coming from your true power. (Salem through Diandra) - www.inwardjourney.com (Source: Sedona Journal of Emergence - October 2003) - www.sedonajournal.com
...learn to not allow harmful, hateful or judgmental thoughts to flow through one’s stream of consciousness, as it is as if one is calling such experiences into one’s life experience. How can one stop one’s judgmental or harmful thoughts? ...intend to attune to the messages of soul as much as possible, and in so doing one will hear their internal guidance for ascension, instead of the endless chatter of the ego personality, which has little to offer in terms of one’s evolutionary goals... [intend] that the personality only hold non-judgmental and peaceful thoughts, and toss all others out. One can even at an early level of ascension accomplish this, and the result is not only a greater level of internal peace, but also an ability to hear one’s soul and guidance with greater ease. (The Earth Mother through Karen Danrich “Mila”) - www.ascendpress.org
Each person comes to the Earth to experience a specific soul role that is taylor made for them, so there are no wrong choices. Without knowing exactly what that soul plan is, we are in no position to make a judgment call on what another is doing with their life. We must just, as the Great Creator does, allow each individual soul their divine privilege to experience life in the ways that they choose. (Dean Fraser)
Great Spirit, help me never to judge another until I have walked in his moccasins. (Sioux Indian Prayer)
Don't judge any man until you have walked two moons in his moccasins. (Native American Proverb)
We should be too big to take offense and too noble to give it. (Abraham Lincoln, 1809-1865 Sixteenth President of the USA)
The cynic is one who never sees a good quality in a man, and never fails to see a bad one. He is the human owl, vigilant in darkness and blind to light, mousing for vermin, and never seeing noble game. (Henry Ward Beecher, 1813-1887 American Preacher Orator Writer)
It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others. (Sidney J. Harris, 1917 American Journalist)
We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are. (Anais Nin, 1914-1977 French-born American Novelist Dancer)
Nothing will make us so charitable and tender to the faults of others, as, by self-examination, thoroughly to know our own. (Francois FeNelon, 1651-1715 French Writer)
Every being has their own way of exploring the idea of existence. It does not mean you must judge the way they are living as invalid. (Greg Whyte)
You will not accelerate your spirituality by rejecting anything that you are... Anything that you are, is there for a reason; although as you change from within, so will your outward attributes and characteristics. You are totally and completely acceptable as you are... The rating game [judging] is one of the most toxic processes in your world. (Ksceondra El Hara) - www.mateo.net/guest/davidson/Relationships_of_Transforma.pdf
The I Am Presence of Mother/Father God is Love, that is the essence of the Source - Love. There is no judgment from the Source - the gift of free will: the fact that all experience is allowed is proof of that. Those of you that have been told God will judge you have been misinformed in the attempt to control via fear generated by such information. God does not judge anything or anybody, because the Source knows that all exists within Him/Her. (Unknown)
With internal knowing, one follows one's own truth. One's truth is one's truth and there is no need to challenge, confront, confuse or invalidate another - for each has their own inherent truth and knowing. Each member of the tribe contributes their knowing to the benefit of the whole, allowing the whole to survive. (Karen Danrich "Mila") - www.ascendpress.org
As the human race is coming to realize who they truly are, they are finding that their current ways of being are no longer serving them. For instance, when you view another human being and immediately judge them, you are acting out of ego - not Self. There no longer needs to be judgment. There no longer needs to be participation in such a game. Such participation is futile and does not move you forward upon the spiritual path. (Archangel Gabriel)
If you have learned how to disagree without being disagreeable, then you have discovered the secret of getting along - whether it be business, family relations, or life itself. (Bernard Meltzer, 1914 American Law Professor)
