
ENDING THE BLAME GAME

Live your life your way - with your Higher Self - in co-creation with Mother Earth. Accept your shadow side, look at it, understand it and love it into wholeness. It is time to balance; see yourself for who you truly are - look in the mirror. Forgive yourself for being less than the perfect one you were created as (ie) give over your belief system about yourself to, that which is greater than you, so that you can be purged, cleansed and again pristine in your beauty.
Remember you are a "spiritual being having a human experience" and it is now time to claim this in its entirety. You are a spiritual being. That is a given!!! You need do nothing to make this happen but realize it and accept it. Then you need to understand that you were given total freedom to come in and have the experience you needed to complete yourself so that you could reach this point in your time, wake up and say "It is enough. I have played the game and played it well. Now I see it and I call it for what it is. I wake up and choose to play it differently. I decide what I want and I let go of my having to make it happen. I allow the universe to work through me and for me, giving me the life I have, and the possibility of having so that I may be fulfilled, joyful and at peace with my world and all that are in it!" (Amaterasu through Chrystyanna) - www.communication-house.com/ch-qa.htm
One of the greatest moments in anybody's developing experience is when he no longer tries to hide from himself but determines to get acquainted with himself as he really is. (Norman Vincent Peale, 1898-1993 American Christian Reformed Pastor Speaker Author)
When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you. (African Proverb)
It is inevitable that some defeat will enter even the most victorious life. The human spirit is never finished when it is defeated... it is finished only when it surrenders. (Ben Stein, American Professor Writer)
We often give our enemies the means for our own destruction. (Aesop, 620-560 BC Greek Fabulist)
Choosing trust over doubt gets me burned once in a while, but I'd rather be singed than hardened. (Victoria Monfort)
He who reins within himself and rules passions, desires, and fears is more than a king. (John Milton, 1608-1674 British Poet)
A wise man will make haste to forgive and forget, because he knows the full value of time and will not suffer it to pass away in unnecessary pain. (Rambler)
Don't agonize. Organize. (Florynce R. Kennedy)
The fire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him. (Chinese Proverb)
We are never deceived; we deceive ourselves. (Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe, 1749-1832 German Poet Dramatist Novelist)
The only tyrant I accept in this world is the still voice within. (Mahatma Gandhi, 1869-1948 Indian Political Spiritual Leader)

If a man deceives me once, shame on him; if he deceives me twice, shame on me. (Italian Proverb)
The easiest person to deceive is one's own self. (Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton, 1803-1873 British Novelist Poet)
I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self. (Aristotle, BC 384-322 Greek Philosopher)
As the Sandwich Islander believes that the strength and valor of the enemy he kills passes into himself, so we gain the strength of the temptation we resist. (Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1803-1882 American Poet Essayist)
Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength, mastering yourself is true power. (Lao-Tzu, BC 600 Chinese Philosopher Founder of Taoism Author of the Tao Te Ching)
No one can make you jealous, angry, vengeful, or greedy - unless you let him. (Napoleon Hill, 1883-1970 American Speaker Motivational Writer Think and Grow Rich)
He that would be superior to external influences must first become superior to his own passions. (Samuel Johnson, 1709-1784 British Author)
All of the significant battles are waged within the self. (Sheldon Kopp, 1929 American Psychologist)
Although you may spend your life killing, You will not exhaust all your foes. But if you quell your own anger, your real enemy will be slain. (Siddha Nagarjuna, c 100-10200 AD Indian/Tibetan Father of Mahayan)
Lying to ourselves is more deeply ingrained than lying to others. (Fyodor Dostoevski, 1821-1881 Russian Novelist)

None of us are responsible for all the things that happen to us, but we are responsible for the way we act when they do happen. (Unknown)
I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. (Walter Anderson, American Trainer Author)
Adversities do not make a man frail. They show what sort of man he is. (Thomas Kempis, 1379-1471 German Monk Mystic Religious Writer)
Become quiet in your mind and still in your consciousness. Begin to reflect upon your life. As you remember when you were 2 years old, 6, 10, 14 and all the years to your present age, do not think of this as who you were. Think of those years instead in the context of, "What experiences was my soul having?" Rather than thinking, "Who am I?" "Who was I?" consider this question: "What was the experience my soul was choosing to have at that time?" When you reflect on something, reflect on how you experienced the experience. If there was pain in it, then resolve to take the pain into your heart, love it, and heal it. In that manner, you free yourself from identifying with the pain, and when you do not identify with the pain, you know your power; you know the reality of who you truly are and you recognize that the existence of your consciousness in this dimension is really not imprisoned within the experiences and preconceived pain of this world. That is how you free yourself... life on your planet is rapidly changing, and now you must recognize that you are not powerless. Step back and see the third dimension for the drama that it really is and know that it is a holographic projection from your soul. (Salem through Diandra) - www.inwardjourney.com (Source: Sedona Journal of Emergence June 2004) - www.sedonajournal.com
Everyone is a self-made person, but only the successful admit it. (Unknown)
The perfecting of one's self is the fundamental base of all progress and all moral development. (Confucius, BC 551-479 Chinese Ethical Teacher Philosopher)
You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on. (Oprah Winfrey)
I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him. (Booker T. Washington)
Man is the only animal that laughs and weeps; for he is the only animal that is struck by the difference between what things are and what they might have been. (William Hazlitt)
Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can't build on it; it's only good for wallowing in. (Katherine Mansfield, British Author 1888-1923)
We must put 'if only' in a bottle and throw it into the sea in the hope that someone else will pick it up. It is of no use to us. (Rosanne D. Thomas)
One is only ever defeated upon the battlefield of the mind, by the enemy within. (Dean Fraser)
When affliction happens to you, you either let it defeat you, or you defeat it. (Rosalind Russell)
He who makes the most noise about his problems usually does the least about them. (Unknown)
It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves. (Sir Edmund Hillary, 1919 New Zealand Mountaineer)
It is wrong to think that misfortunes come from the east or from the west; they originate within one's own mind. Therefore, it is foolish to guard against misfortunes from the external world and leave the inner mind uncontrolled. (Buddha, 568-488 BC Founder of Buddhism)
The only one who can beat me is me. (Michael Johnson, 1967 American Track Athlete)
You are the only real obstacle in your path to a fulfilling life. (Les Brown, 1945 American Speaker Author Trainer Motivator Lecturer)
To err is human; to blame it on others is even more human. (Unknown)
When a man meets an obstacle that he cannot overcome, it's not the obstacle, but himself that he cannot summount. (Unknown)
I realized the problem was me and nobody could change me except myself. (John Petworth)
The girl that can't dance says the band can't play. (Yiddish Proverb)
It's not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean. (Anthony Robbins, 1960 American Author Speaker Peak Performance Expert / Consultant)
The circumstances of your life have uniquely qualified you to make a contribution. And if you don't make that contribution, nobody else can make it. (Rabbi Harold S. Kushner)
There are two ways of meeting difficulties: you alter the difficulties or you alter yourself meeting them. (Phyllis Bottome, 1884-1963 American Writer)
You have powers you never dreamed of. You can do things you never thought you could do. There are no limitations in what you can do except the limitations of your own mind. (Darwin P. Kingsley)
